It seems these days "kids" are finding their significant other at a young age; 18... 19...20... ect. I can't help but wonder if that's beneficial or asking for your own downfall. Every time I date a guy I picture our lives in the future... what girl doesn't right? I'm not alone there... but I wonder who i'm kidding, even imagining a life with the man i'm dating, everything ends in my life. I can't imagine finalizing it now, but that takes away from the relationship. I mean, why date until it's too late? Why put the two of you through that love and pain... if you know it's not going to last? The thing is, you don't know it's not going to. I can just give you a damn good garuntee.
Everyone i've dated has had amazing qualities, that I still appreciate. I've dated a lot of good guys, it's just that I am not a commitment person. I think I am at the beginning of a new relationship, but in reality i'm not. It's really not their fault... it's mine. It kills me! Eventually I find myself looking for the "bad" aspects of my boyfriends... and I convince myself it'll never work. At that point, it probably won't.
So really... do we need to bite the bit and bare it, or is it better to look for someone we're completely content with?
